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- Title: Dear Girls: Intimate Tales, Untold Secrets & Advice for Living Your Best Life
- Author: Ali Wong
- Narrator: Ali Wong, Justin Hakuta
- Length: 06:21:16
- Version: Abridged
- Release Date: 15/10/2019
- Publisher: Random House (Audio)
- Genre: Biography & Memoir, Comedy, Essays & Memoirs, Health & Wellness, Arts & Entertainment, Parenting, Biography & Memoir, Comedy, Essays & Memoirs, Health & Wellness, Arts & Entertainment, Parenting
- ISBN13: 9.78E+12
When I first pressed play on the ‘Dear Girls’ audiobook, I was expecting a good laugh – after all, Ali Wong’s stand-up specials like ‘Baby Cobra’ are legendary for their raw, unfiltered humor. But what I got was so much more: a collection of essays framed as letters to her daughters, brimming with fierce honesty, cultural insights, and a surprising tenderness that hit me right in the chest. Narrated by Ali Wong herself, alongside her husband Justin Hakuta for select interludes, this audiobook unfolds like a late-night conversation with a friend who’s not afraid to bare it all – marriage struggles, parenting war stories, and the gritty realities of being a working mom in comedy. It’s a biography and memoir that doubles as a comedy masterclass, with dashes of health and wellness wisdom woven into every absurdly funny anecdote.
I’ve always believed that the best stories connect us to something universal, no matter how personal they are. Listening to ‘Dear Girls,’ I couldn’t help but think back to those evenings in Oaxaca, staying with a family whose grandmother spun tales under the flickering light of a courtyard lantern. Her voice had a rhythm, a way of pulling you in with every pause and inflection, much like Ali Wong does here. There’s an intimacy to her narration that makes you feel like she’s speaking directly to you, whether she’s recounting the brutal dating scene in New York or the surreal experience of drinking snake blood in Vietnam to reconnect with her roots. You can almost taste the bitterness of that drink, hear the chaos of her San Francisco childhood, and feel the weight of her exhaustion as a new mom. It’s storytelling at its most visceral, and for someone like me, who’s spent years chasing human connections through travel, it’s pure gold.
The content of ‘Dear Girls’ is a vibrant tapestry of themes – feminism, Asian-American identity, the grind of a career in arts and entertainment, and the messy beauty of parenting. Wong’s essays don’t shy away from the gross or the shocking; they revel in it, whether she’s dissecting the realities of postpartum life or the absurdities of marriage. Yet beneath the humor, there’s a profound layer of advice for living authentically. It reminds me of a time when I was driving through the Atacama Desert, listening to ‘One Hundred Years of Solitude’ on audiobook, the surreal landscape mirroring the magical realism of the story. Wong’s tales have a similar effect – her life feels both larger-than-life and deeply relatable, a desert of raw emotion punctuated by oases of laughter.
As a memoir, ‘Dear Girls’ stands out in the biography and essays genre for its unflinching honesty. Wong tackles subjects often left unspoken, especially for women in comedy – sex after kids, the double standards of working moms versus dads, and the cultural expectations she’s navigated as an Asian-American woman. Compared to other works like Mark Manson’s ‘The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck,’ which I’ve also enjoyed for its no-nonsense approach to life, Wong’s book offers a more personal, narrative-driven take on similar ideas of prioritizing what matters. While Manson gives pragmatic life advice, Wong embeds her lessons in stories that shock and satisfy, making this a unique blend of humor and health and wellness insights.
Now, let’s talk about the audiobook experience itself. Ali Wong’s narration is a revelation. Her stand-up background shines through – her timing is impeccable, and she knows exactly how to land a punchline or let a poignant moment linger. Her voice carries the weight of every emotion, from biting sarcasm to quiet vulnerability. Justin Hakuta’s contributions, particularly in the chapter addressed to him, add a delightful counterpoint. His earnest, slightly awkward delivery contrasts with Wong’s sharpness, making their dynamic feel real and endearing. The audio quality is crisp, with no distractions, allowing their voices to take center stage. For anyone seeking a comedy audiobook or a memoir with heart, this listening experience is unmatched.
That said, I’d be remiss not to mention a slight limitation. While Wong’s humor is often universal, some cultural references or niche comedy industry insights might not resonate with every listener. There were moments when I wished for a bit more context, especially around specific Asian-American experiences that I, as an outsider, couldn’t fully grasp without prior knowledge. Additionally, the audiobook’s structure – while intimate as letters to her daughters – can feel a tad disjointed at times, jumping between life stages without clear transitions. But these are minor quibbles in an otherwise captivating journey.
For fans of memoirs, comedy, or essays on parenting and personal growth, ‘Dear Girls’ is a must-listen. It’s a perfect pick if you’ve enjoyed works like Tina Fey’s ‘Bossypants,’ which also blends humor with career and family insights, though Wong’s voice is distinctly edgier and more culturally specific. I’d recommend this audiobook to anyone craving a raw, real perspective on womanhood, or to travelers like me who appreciate stories that bridge cultural divides through humor and heart.
Reflecting on this audiobook, I’m struck by how much it mirrors the human connections I seek in my travels. Wong’s stories remind us that life’s messiest moments often hold the most truth, much like the unpolished, beautiful chaos of a bustling market in Marrakech or a family dinner in rural Brazil. This listening experience isn’t just entertainment; it’s a reminder to embrace the struggles, laugh at the absurdities, and keep telling our stories – no matter how wild they get.
So, my friends, whether you’re on a long road trip or just curled up at home, give ‘Dear Girls’ a listen. Let Ali Wong’s voice guide you through her world – it’s a journey worth taking. Until our paths cross again, keep seeking the stories that move you. This is Marcus Rivera, signing off with a smile and a story in my heart.